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Short for flamboyant. Origianted in times of angst from political correctness, it is used to differentiate which homosexuals are actually gaywads. You know, the fairy kind. One can also be a flam without actually partaking in any homsexual activities, but most experts agree that any flam would readily engage in said queer actions.
1)noun: Check out that flam heading into the Gap, he has a tattoo right over his asscrack. Yuck.
2)adj: You know why that guy has so many chick friends, because he's flamish. They dig the flamish ones because they're great shoppers.
by Stallis' Finest December 21, 2004
 
1.
To 'no show' or to stand someone up, usually on purpose and without remorse.
Someone who flams frequently would be called a 'flammer'
Variation - to 'flamboozle'
"Andrew just called and said he can't come to the BBQ because his El Camino won't start...Yeah right! We know he's just sitting at home twiddling his skin flute... He is such a flammer!"
by LUXAPUSS March 17, 2006
 
2.
a drum rudement, normally an attack, in which both sicks hitt the drum head at off-set intervals.
John's drum fill included many flams.
by g spice February 08, 2004
 
3.
not good, bad, shady.
That was some flam shit you did, when you said you were friends with her, then you started talkiing about her when she left.
by hannerkinz July 17, 2009
 
4.
noun,verb, or adj.-to be fake or inconsistent, to say one thing yet do another.

deivatives- flammed, flamming, to flam, flamtastic
-slang- flammin
Bruh, that chick is such a flam sometimes! (noun)

Why must he be so flamtastic. (predicate nominative (noun))

He forgot to give you a ride again? Boi, he flammin. (verb)

Oh, here comes our flamtastic teammate himself. (adj)
by cartaboi January 09, 2011
 
5.
Feel(ing) Like A Meat, to feel stupid. To feel humiliated.
He was flam when he realized he had shouted out the wrong answer.
by hsysysk55 April 07, 2010
 
6.
v. To attempt to insult (or flame) the wrong person, i.e. someone who turns out to have way more control of a situation than it would seem from the outside.
If a mobster found him or herself at a party and proceeded to insult another one of the partygoers, only to find out later that the other partygoer turned out to be the new D.A. with a mad-on for mobsters, this would be considered a flam.
by Dr. Bomb November 17, 2010
 
7.
Fucking Liberal Arts Major
"Look at those kids playing frisbee on the quad during finals week!"

"Goddamn FLAMs."
by employedaftercollege August 23, 2011