v. To attempt to insult (or flame) the wrong person, i.e. someone who turns out to have way more control of a situation than it would seem from the outside.
If a mobster found him or herself at a party and proceeded to insult another one of the partygoers, only to find out later that the other partygoer turned out to be the new D.A. with a mad-on for mobsters, this would be considered a flam.
by Dr. Bomb November 17, 2010
To 'no show' or to stand someone up, usually on purpose and without remorse.
Someone who flams frequently would be called a 'flammer'
Variation - to 'flamboozle'
"Andrew just called and said he can't come to the BBQ because his El Camino won't start...Yeah right! We know he's just sitting at home twiddling his skin flute... He is such a flammer!"
by LUXAPUSS March 17, 2006
a drum rudement, normally an attack, in which both sicks hitt the drum head at off-set intervals.
John's drum fill included many flams.
by g spice February 08, 2004
not good, bad, shady.
That was some flam shit you did, when you said you were friends with her, then you started talkiing about her when she left.
by hannerkinz July 17, 2009
noun,verb, or adj.-to be fake or inconsistent, to say one thing yet do another.

deivatives- flammed, flamming, to flam, flamtastic
-slang- flammin
Bruh, that chick is such a flam sometimes! (noun)

Why must he be so flamtastic. (predicate nominative (noun))

He forgot to give you a ride again? Boi, he flammin. (verb)

Oh, here comes our flamtastic teammate himself. (adj)
by cartaboi January 09, 2011
Feel(ing) Like A Meat, to feel stupid. To feel humiliated.
He was flam when he realized he had shouted out the wrong answer.
by hsysysk55 April 07, 2010
Fabulous and Glamorous put together makes the wonderful word, Flam
1. Oh my god, your hair is so flam today!
2. That girl's purse is like so freakin' flam!
3. Hey there cutie, your pretty flam
by Abigailea May 05, 2007

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