Dr. Phil is a man who hosts a talk show called Dr. Phil. People go on this show to recieve guidance and advice from Dr. Phil. He does not persue or harass them, they ASK for his advice, therefore he can't be blamed for telling these people their problems are their own fault. He's just telling them the truth. They asked for his help.
I would never go on Dr. Phil because I already know my problems are my own fault.