1. The act of bending someones dong.
2. One who enjoys bending the male penis. Usually done with the mouth.
Do you think Robbies gay? Ya he's a total dong bender.
Derogatory term for a homosexual male. Alludes to possible bending of the penis when having difficulting penetrating the anus during sodomy intercourse.
"Yeah, I saw that gay bar the other night. Those guys are all a bunch of dong benders."