Or when she uses verbal intimidation to get a younger man to sleep with her.
Sometimes it is a combination of the two if the young prey hasnt picked up on the first verbal sign the cougar has offered him glourious sexual fun.
He says "Oh i know im a good fuck"
She says "Then prove it"
This dialog is along the lines of a cougar trap
Josh: nope, you go, I'm going to the bar next to that cougar to get a drink and without noticing her I'll casually mention how my lame friend went home early and left me here alone -- cougar trap baited...