Girl 2: "What about him?"
Girl 1: "I think he's kinda cute"
Girl 2: "Ugh but he's so shy and quiet! Zero confidence. I wouldn't give him a chance."
The next day
Girl 2: "Oh look! there's that hot guy Trev! I soooo want him!"
Girl 1: "Go ask him out"
Girl 2: "Jeez that's intimidating! I'll just give him a smile and wait till he asks ME out"
girl: (ooooo he's so confident) "present it please!"
confidence is a good thing, but girls mix it up with arrogance because in high school they were used to guys being shy and like the difference in college.
arrogance (misinterpreted as confidence) means that you didn't take his breath away