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a very intimate way of hugging between gay man. Purpose of a chili hug is to turn each other on/ make each other hot, but without anyone else noticing. Like a hot chili – therefore the name.
Marco is a real chili hugger.

Did you see those two guys chili hug all night?
by Dieter Pee Laser February 07, 2011