a sexual act involving 3 or more people. one person, the candler, repeatedly shoves his penis into the anuses of the other members of the candling group until his shaft is covered in a layer of shit which then can be lit on fire for further enjoyment
-dude did you hear about Shankara?
-no what happened?
-he was caught candling with his mom and dad!
-shit that's gross!!!!
to insert a candle stick up one's vagina, similar to fingering only using a candle instead of one's finger.
Brian Kennedy wants to candle any thing that has a vagina this saturday night. Brian Kennedy was unsucessful while candling Jessica.