1. slang for penis or dildo which has been or will be used in anal sex.

2. an excellent name for people who fuck others over. (see prick, asshole, douche and their variant forms)
1. i work at a porn store selling handcuffs and butt wands to people.

2. my boss at the porn store is a total butt wand.
by Vulva Hammer April 17, 2011
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