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1.
a self centered, self serving and completely clueless person who focuses on how best to get back at another, even at the expense of those who should be close and dear to them.

usually an ex-spouse with a major grudge to bear, even if unfounded.
The butt nacho spent $2700 at a jewlery store, instead of paying his past due child support.
by kitten~ June 19, 2008
 
2.
a self centered, self serving and completely clueless person who focuses on how best to get back at another, even at the expense of those who should be close and dear to them.

usually an ex-spouse with a major grudge to bear, even if unfounded.
The butt nacho spent $2700 at a jewlery store, instead of paying his past due child support.
by kitten~ June 20, 2008