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Busting My Balls 

1.When somebody is Bitching at you for no good reason or nagging at you to do something you don't want to do.
Shit Bitch, quit Busting my Balls about me being out all night with my friends.
Busting My Balls by Mojo Maniac August 1, 2008

busting your balls

i am just busting your balls buddy, i really didnt fuck your girlfriend.

busting your balls

Making fun of someone; messing around with someone; dicking around with someone;
"I just came, I haven't seen you in a while, and I'm just busting your balls."
or
Johnny:"Ya ya you a tough guy like that one time u pussied out?"
Jimmy:"Johnny would you quit busting my balls?"
busting your balls by Johnny Keyes January 25, 2009

Busting my balls 

An exclamation used, when the user is pissed off at a character in a Video Game.
Busting my balls by Bik Valbordo December 23, 2007

Busting My Balls 

An often vital practice relating to relationship-maintenance. Relationship counselors broadly refer to this as preserving “healthy vulnerability,” or tletting down your guard, being completely honest,in order to demonstrate loyalty, love, trust, and willingness to self-sacrifice for a friend who might not immediately appreciate such risk, interpreting it instead as intrusiveness and abuse at first.

Theory: A constant background level of nagging can insure that when you do “lose your shit,” you will be around supportive friends who are willing to change your emotional diaper. The insult-trading practice of “Playing the dozens” use to serve a similar purpose in the Black community until it fell out of fashion due to its historically-repugnant origins in slavery (devaluation/objectification when slaves were bundled by the dozen). It's a social means to avoid the emptiness of “I’m fine” when checking in with a friend who may be too full of grit to want to burden others with personal problems. This is also why in New York City, “F*ck you!” and “F*ck you too!” have respectively come to replace “Hello my friend! Are you truly okay?” and “Why yes I am. Thank you for caring so sincerely and deeply!”
Busting My Balls:

Tony and Vincenzo were busting each other's balls until Vincenzo broke down and admitted he he had to put down his 25-year old retriever, Zeus, today. We should bring him some Stromboli and get blotto with him later.
Busting My Balls by metadrool November 10, 2021

busting one's balls

"balls" is refering to someone's ego

so busting someone's balls would be making them insecure in some way

busting one's balls could be messing with them, annoying them, teasing them, embarrasing them, etc.

they use this phrase a lot in the movie "The Goodfellas"
busting one's balls by Josh June 24, 2006