| 1. | non-boyfriend | ||
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(1) A favored male romantic companion with whom no commitment nor title has yet been established. While a committed relationship is expected to be eminent, specific elements prevent this from occurring (distance, parental demands, awaiting divorce finalization, or simple "not-to-that-point-yet" reasoning.) While no commitment has been made, and you are free to date others, feelings for said partner often prevent it. Your non-boyfriend is often unaware that you have dubbed him as such, but all of your friends are aware of it. This relationship phase will fall somewhere between "Boyfriend" and "That-guy-I've-been-seeing".
(2) A fuck buddy with whom emotional feelings are present and mutual, but not discussed and no commitment exists. Beth: So what's the deal with you and Mark? Is he your boyfriend or are you guys just friends?
Ashley: We haven't really talked about it yet, but we'll have our 5th date tomorrow. He's definitely more my non-boyfriend. |
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| 2. | I still want to be friends | ||
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An old cliché used, mostly by girls, who dump their boyfriend/girlfriend, to try to lessen the blow and hurt they will go through for months. However, being friends can never happen and they will soon forget about you, leaving you to pick up the broken pieces of your heart all alone. Girl: "I don't want a boyfriend anymore, I'm so sorry. But I still want to be friends"
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| 3. | right to be mad | ||
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Used as an excuse to treat the person who made you mad like shit for an indiscriminate amount of time due to the perceived justification of the anger. Generally used by girlfriends against their boyfriends. Over the other often more mature options of talking about it and coming to a reasonable solution. Boyfriend joked about the girlfriend being stubborn.
Girlfriend claims "I have the right to be mad!!! Boyfriend proceeds to get the silent treatment and sleeps alone for 2 days. |
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| 4. | I just want to be friends | ||
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A phrase that your boyfriend or girlfriend will say {normally the girlfriend says it} which means "I don't want to date you, so I think that it's best that we are just friends, instead of saying "I'm dumping you". Often said because the they don"t want to hurt your feelings but. This phrase is very commonly used as a way out of a relationship. Carol: Listen Jack this isn't really working out. Jack: Was it something I said? Carol: No not at all but i still like you so, I just want to be friends, okay? Jack: Okay I guess. *weep*
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| 5. | Loafin | ||
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To be fake or full of it. Or to tell an obvious lie. Tony: So you gonna dance wit me at the Go-Go?
Maggie: I would but my boyfriend gonna be in there. Tony: Man you be loafin! |
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| 6. | bad boyfriend | ||
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A man who doesnt act like he loves you, ignores you, calls you annoying, doesnt care when he makes you cry, hurts you and doesnt say sorry, puts you second to everything, askes to watch porn ALL the time even when he knos it HURTS you alot makes you feel like your not good enough and that your ugly and fat and then starts fights bout it and makes it sound like hes dateing the porn.. making it sound soo important to him...when the girl hes so called in love wit is supose to be the ONLY important thing in his life. boy: can i watch porn?
girl: no your supose to be spending time wit me.. boy: but..i really want to watch it i need that "feeling". girl: umm...is porn more important to you than me? boy: no...your both important to me. girl: ...-eyes start to tear up- boy: can i watch it? boy: pleaseeeee?!? girl: -tears start going down her cheeks- no..i want to spend time wit you..not having you droolin over other girls..your being such a Bad Boyfriend.. boy: THATS NOT FAIR! I WANT TO WATCH PORN! *he doesnt even notice shes crying* Guys are so blind. They never notice there hurting the one girl who really loves them. Dont let this happen to you..it really really hurts...=/ |
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| 7. | Wtbw | ||
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Lets say you and your Boyfriend/Husband are very happy and very much in love, however you go to a party one night and you stumble across his 'ex. And they start talking.. Your thinking 'What the!' Its beacause.. He wants to be wanted. He isnt intrested in her one bit (hense the lable 'ex' )he just wants her to want him still. We could call this a male ego- Now dont be put of, he loves you. Probaly even more than he did with his 'ex but still wants to have something over HER. Becky: Why you so sad tasha?
Tasha: Mark was flirting with his ex' last night, and he seemed real intrested in her, whats up with THAT?!' Becky: Dont waste your time on that, he loves you he just wtbw! Tasha: what does that mean? Becky: he 'wants to be wanted!' Tasha: I guess. (: |
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