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1) The act of receiving a nasty email/letter/text/tweet/voice-mail/etc.
2) Getting blackmailed by a bitch
3) Term for a message that should have been communicated face-to-face that is received via another means
- My boss just bitchmailed me again.
- You've been BITCHMAILED!
- That bitch just blackmailed me!
by BitchMailed August 31, 2011