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Being bisexual means you can have emotional, sexual, physical, spirtual, and/or mental attractions to people of either gender. (1) It's just as natural as heterosexuality or homosexuality, even if you don't choose to accept it as such. Being bisexual is NOT just something that people do for attention or something people to be unique, and it does NOT mean that you aren't ready to accept being gay, haven't "came out" completely yet, can't make up your mind, are a sex pervert, are so low that you just take whatever you can get, that you always cheat and have to have multiple relationships, and/or you engage in orgies every night. There ARE people, though, who do pretend that they're bisexual to try to be more "hardcore" or "edgy." (2) We are NOT all like that, and anyone who is like that is NOT actually bisexual, and so you shouldn't consider any REAL bisexual people to be like that. I'm sure some bisexual people do engage in orgies and stuff and do have multiple relationships at once, but they are in the minority. There are straight and gay people like that too.

Bisexuality is just as valid a sexual orintation as heterosexuality or homosexuality, and it is your own decision whether you choose to accept it as such or not, and I can't make that decision for you. I ask only that you don't, as many people do in this time we live in, judge bisexual people or consider them worth less.

Have a nice day.
1. Bob is bisexual, because he used to be dating Jane, and now he's going to ask out John. It's great that he can be so open about it.

2. Susan tried to get more attention by suddenly kissing random girls and acting bisexual. Unfortunately, with how low a level of sophistication the majority of today's society has fallen to, she did get more attention from unintelligent guys. Makes us real bisexual people look bad, doesn't it?

I'm bisexual, and I love it.
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One who is attracted to both sexes.

This most certainly does NOT mean that they are all total whores who sleep with everyone that they see.

Both guys and girls can be bisexual.

Bi guys are not: Really gay just trying to be normal
Bi girls are not: Just saying their bi to get in a guys pants.

I do understand that the above things CAN happen, but you should not assume that every bi person fits into one of those catagories.
Samantha found that she was attracted to girls, thus being bisexual, but she still continued to date her boyfriend. They got married and had two kids.

Jeff started dating Sara, but he found that along with the fact that he liked Dave he was getting mild sexual feelings for him too. He decided that he was bisexual. Eventually, he broke up with Sara and asked Dave out, who turned him down. They are still friends.
by Hailstorm227 September 17, 2006
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A person who is attracted romantically and sexually to both genders; male and female.

It's the most uncommon sexuality, as people are either heterosexual (most commonly) or homosexual.

Often enough, bisexuals experience some form of discrimination, doubt or questioning. Many homophobics do not like the "homosexual" aspect of being bisexual, and there are also people who think bisexuals are:

* Greedy.

This is bullshit, because you can't be "greedy" because you're ATTRACTED to both sexes, doesn't mean you HAVE both sexes. Plus even if you do have both sexes, it's their choice to be with you, right?

* Can't make up their mind/sexually confused.

This can actually be true, but not all bisexuals are confused. Is it that hard to like both?

* Only do it for attention.

While it's true you get some girls who claim to be bisexual to appeal to guys/guys claim to be bisexual to appeal to girls. Again. It doesn't mean all bisexuals are "heterosexuals in disguise".

* Like both males and females equally.

Again. SOME do, but not all. Some bisexuals prefer one gender over the other, it doesn't diminish their bisexuality though. It's possible for a man to prefer women, but would not mind having a sexual and romantic relationship with other men also. It's what bisexuality is all about.

BEST of BOTH worlds.
Bisexual male who prefers women to men, but that doesn't mean I'm straight. At least I don't believe it does. I'd still date and eff another man.
by HMMMMIMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM February 17, 2009
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Being attracted to people of both the male and female gender.

Galaxy harbors romantic feelings for both Courtney and Ray because she is bisexual, and is not confused or dying for attention.

by Hannibal Lecter July 13, 2006
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A gender or individual who is in love with both male and female
I told my mother i was a Bi Sexual but she was shocked so i lied and say it was april fool's to hide my truth about who i am...
by Cat Stray March 28, 2005
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Either male or female likeing either genders sexually, romantically or whatever. They enjoy the presence of both sexes. They are not confused or can't decide. They just like both.
not needed, who doesn't understand bisexuals????
by mypain_mypride June 22, 2006
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A real sexuality, liking both males and females. Girls will often pretend to be bi just to get a guys attention when they really aren't. Don't let these girls fool you. They are just attention whores who have so little going for them, that they have to resort to making out with anohter girl for a guy to notice them.
Amy is attracted to both Males and Females, and so she is a bisexual.

Jill only finds men attractive, but resorts to making out with girls for attention.
by anonymous September 29, 2004
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