It does not send a sexual message but can get annoying for one or more of the following reasons:
1. it gets infected easily and stays that way
2. if it has parts that dangle they could easily get caught in one's pants or any objects set on one's lap. This really hurts.
3. if one does not buy a tight ball it will fall out.
4. months after it has been pierced it may still close up in a day when taken out.
5. it might rust.