Name given to a male service member officer who tries to play a straight man, yet still runs off in the night to stay with male "friends" for sleep overs and slumber parties, or meetings as some of them would say. See also: Bruce-Stash Backdoor Captain Bruce L'Allier
"So where did the O go?"
"You mean..'pause'.. Bang Butt?"
"Prolly suckin on boy's member right about now."