When you use an appendage such as your arm, leg, or head instead of your dick. Involves being skinny enough to fit an arm or leg in a chicks vagina.
That dude is trying to lose some weight cause his girl loves to azzam.
Someone who has determination, focus and perseverance. Normally powerful, respected and a natural born leader that is known to be fair.
"We need an azzam to lead this company out of the recession."
"Her new boyfriend is a real catch, he is sexy, smart and a real azzam."