A question that is asked in a demeanor that's demanding like an officer of the law would when he pulls over and asks for an unlawful suspects' driver's license.
A person is more likely to ask-demand more for your annoyance than for genuinity.
Susie: So Ann, are we having a sleep over tonight again? Remember u promised? And you said!
Ann: Yeah but it's only been 6 days since the last time you spent a night! My Mother ask demand why you were spending-a-night so often.
Susie: Should you just tell your Mom that we're just Besties ?