(n) A person who defies fashion and trendiness passively, by just being an individual.

The polar opposite of a socialite.

Not to be confused with an antisocial, antisocialites do not shun socializing, but rather avoid using it as a lifestyle (as socialites do).

Also not to be confused with a nonconformist, who purposely does the opposite of anything they deem to be "in" at a given time.
Example:
If you just have to get that new Louis Vuitton handbag with built in poodle carrier, you're a socialite.

If you hate the world and everything in it, and are too lazy to do more than bitch about it, you are a nonconformist.

If you just don't give a fuck, you're an antisocialite.
by Monkeysquat May 21, 2006
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Antisocialite: Someone who is a socialite but not social in a sense. They may go to gatherings, networking events, parties etc., interact with people but thats it. They cut it there and not interested in socializing after the fact. They may see someone they know and say, "Oh hi. How are you?" But that doesn't mean they want to sit and hold a half an hour conversation with you about things they don't care to hear or talk about, or catch up later and gossip, etc. You may see them out at public gatherings, events etc., but that's it. You don't know about their personal life, see them post anything too personal on social media, because they are antisocial.
Antisocialite: Goes to a party (socialite) Run's into a girl she knows casually out somewhere in public; Hey girl, what's up? It's nice to see you....(social) 2 mins later (damn she's annoying, I don't want to hear about her story) (anti) ok, hey I gotta run, I'll see you around! (Not really lol)
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A person who is antisocial in nature yet everyone seems to call attention to.

The Antisocialite may seem like a contradiction. They may simultaneously spend hours and weeks alone, yet have no issue speaking their mind when they feel necessary.

They can briefly appear at events and talk without hesitation on certain topics. Yet, they may hardly speak again through the course of the event.

People often think they talk more than they do, have more friends than they actually do, and overall have an inaccurate perspective of their lives.

Antisocialites will be both loved and hated with equal intensity by those who are in contact with them. People also think they know them, and yet will only have seen one tiny piece of them.

Antisocialites are passionate and calm in equal measure. They may enter a party without saying a word, yet everyone will remember them and call attention to them, whether in joyous exclamation or angry whispers.

They are often the brunt of many hateful and loving actions, and can find it taxing to be so noticed by both kinds of people.

Antisocialites make people feel intensely. It can cause people to make assumptions about them because of the strong emotions they draw out of those around them.

Antisocialites may hide out on their own for weeks, months, or even years, then arrive in the spotlight once again to reveal themselves in tiny snapshots.

Antisocialites once wanted to be known. As they age, they rejoice in being unknowable.
“The woman was alluring and powerful from the moment she entered the room, yet she hardly spoke a word all evening. When she began to speak during our discussion, I felt so wrapped up in her words. But as soon as the topic changed, she smiled and left to sit in the corner again like a true Antisocialite.”

“My parents loved her. My sisters hated her. My brothers wanted to fuck her. The Antisocialite managed to make everyone feel something very intensely. Yet all she did was be herself for a brief moment, and disappear again.”

“When you’re an Antisocialite, everyone loves you or hates you, but hardly anyone really knows you.”
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One who constantly utilizes social-media platforms as a means to socialize remotely while never interacting with any actual human beings in person.

Not to be confused with antisocial which is when someone wishes to have zero interaction with anybody ever, in any form, in person or remotely.
Trevor has become such an "antisocialite", he has thousands of followers online but never leaves his parent's basement anymore.
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afraid to talk to other people or just hates to talk all together
After his grandma died, he becames very antisocialites and he didnt talk to anyone at the funeral.
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