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1.
refers to the male of the homo sapiens species, generally inferring same-sex interactions

1. : having affection or warm regard in a forward manner : assertive <alphectionate greeting hug>
2. : motivated by honest affection : tender but firm <alphectionate spontaneous kiss>
3. : being the one to call, the one to speak up, to be honest and direct in what you're feeling and what you want <alphectionate post-date phone call>
4. : in short, not being a pussy or beta male, not always wanting the other guy to be Prince Charming
"It turns out he was just waiting for me to be alphectionate and ask him on a second date."
by Trevor Kuprel March 07, 2008