Violating Is a term used by African Americans Males Usually From New York Meaning to verbally take it to far which could start a fight or to put there hands on them the wrong way which also leads to a fight.
yo ma nigguh u be violating wit em momma jokes
****punches the kid who made the jokes in the face****
to touch someone somewhere they don't want to be touched at that particular moment of time.
"accidentally" slipping and copping a feel, she said i was violating her