Top Definition
Sex that involves no twists or kinkiness, and no S&M. Basically plain regular sex. Typically sweet and happy and very lovey-dovey.
While Noah was one for a little kinkiness every now and then, Josh definitely prefers his vanilla sex.
by Blair February 09, 2004
A description of what a culture regards as standard or conventional sexual practice. Often, it is interpreted as sex which does not involve elements such as, BDSM, kink, or fetish activities. Usually defined as boring, plain sex. But, a vanilla lover would regard it as making-love, passionate sex.
1. Among heterosexual couples in the Western world, vanilla sex often refers to the missionary position.
2. Among homosexual couples, it sometimes implies that the activity is non-insertive (i.e. intercrural sex, frottage etc.)
by Gianna Da Vinci October 18, 2010
Sexual Intercourse usually defined by the missonary style.

Nothing by definition is abnormal. No Pain. No Kinkyness. Just Love.

Most socially acceptable form of intercourse.
While I am usually one for the kinkyness, Vanilla sex fancies my taste every once and a while.
by Kathryne Himegimi December 18, 2004
Normal, standard sex versus "wordkinkyword" or adventurus sex. Like comparing Missonary(vanilla) to doggy style(kinky)
I dumped her cause all she wanted was vanilla sex, I like my chicks freaky!
by crazyfock November 05, 2003
boring. un-inventive. plain. sex
person A. "I got some last night."
person B. "Really, how was it?"
person A. "Meh, vanilla sex."
person B. "Awww. that sucks."
by yuip August 02, 2009
The most common fetish of all. Vagina fetish for men; penis fetish for women.
"I think I have a vagina fetish." "Oh no you mean vanilla sex."
by Wombachoo September 27, 2007
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