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1.
Anal sex, esp. between two men.
In the film Brokeback Mountain, Ennis and Jake's boss caught them "stemming the rose".
by ChicagoMo November 30, 2005
 
2.
Male homosexual anal sex,
From Brokeback Mountain, Ennis and Jake's boss says - "You guys wasn't gettin' paid to leave the dogs babysit the sheep, while you stemmed the rose"

Stemming the rose
by PhilDM1 January 26, 2008