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One who does more than his/her fair share of whining and/or complaining, much like that of a toddler in a high chair. A spoon banger--in adult terms--may be a stubborn person who complains about everyday functions.
It was impossible to get that spoon banger to bong a beer last night.
by chuzbesko August 02, 2010