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When one brings a member of the opposite sex to their place of residence with the intention of nuanced, in depth conversation, followed by a cuddle heavy period in which the guest spends the night. Moderate making out is permitted, but if behavior exceeds this, it is no longer a speak over.
Do you want to speak over tonight?, I know I am pretty religious, but c'mon, it was just a speak over.
by beachesbeersbitchesbongs December 03, 2009