Sir - The knight in shining armor coming to the rescue of the damsel in distress and filled with chivalric notions about women.
Captain - steering the financial ship - Providing all monetary support to a woman or women and their children.
Sir - In Miguel de Cervantes - Don Quixote - Quixote believes that he is an errant knight. He has delusional fantasies of rescuing fair Dulcinea and woos her. In reality, Dulcinea is a scullery maid named Aldonza. She is a self-proclaimed prostitute that has been with every guy in town.
Captain - The Captain would marry and support the town whore and help her raise her illegitimate children while she is banging every other guy in town behind the Captain's back.