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1.
When a woman in a relationship dictates to her lover by using the reward/threat of sexuall intercourse.
1. My girlfriend sextates to me by giving me handys in the JC Pennys parking lot in order to get me to carry her bags when she wants to go shoping.
2. My girlfiend has big tits, so i do whatever she says.
by cool hand lucas July 20, 2010