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1.
The art of holding someone else's Johnson while the receiver of which holds your arm and moves it to their desired speed, a bit of give and take from both parties, a perfect middle ground for when someone isn't entirely up to the full hand job.
Hey man get a wristie last night? nah bro, reverse dutch rudder.. she was kind of tired so i had to meet her half way
by Orgy-o May 28, 2011
 
2.
When you put your fingers in your ladys thing, and then she grabs your forearm and moves it oup and down till climax...thats what Uncle Bobby G and Uncle VC aka Mr Wynn taught me...
you finger her, and she grabs your arm for up and down and in and out pleasure thats a reverse dutch rudder
by Steve Wynnss May 18, 2009