A female of this group usually prefers to be called "Mimi" by her grandchildren, but never wants to look anything like a typical grandmother!
Could also be someone with a new position in work, politics or social circles,where he/she is usually easily identifiable.
A Mespecial has the ability to elbow up in front of any camera within 150 yards of them.
Women who choose to wear bright (usually red) jackets on the Congressional floor are signalling they are a Mespecial.
Other Mespecial examples in the political arena could be Al Gore, Ted Kennedy, or our new vice-president.
Can also be the "prodigal son" in a family business.
"Oh Lord, take cover, here comes the "Mespecial" of the family."