The act of judging someone by what they say in a instant message. Not always but sometimes a girl thing
Glorbot: I am so afraid of what is going to happen.
monkjoe: you will be fine.. you are a strong person who knows what they want.
Glorbot: So you think I am overbearing.. and dramatizing this.
monkjoe: no .. I was saying you oh wait nevermind you do look fat in this IM.