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The effect of two or more people or circumstances that interact to have an over all negative affect where the sum of the parts exceeds the sum of the whole, negatively.
There is malergy in that relationship where Sue needs be needed and Sam is always playing helpless. They have a malergistic affect on one another and those around them.
by speedy little taxi August 19, 2008