The act of using one's significant other's hand (while they're sleeping) to jack off.
Holy shit! My boyfriend hand raped me!
The act of someone either shaking your had or giving you change froma store where they purpously go out of their way to moleste, as if fingering you, the palm of your had. A rather creepy and violated feeling.
Sue: I met Tim at the party the other night and when he shook my hand he sorta finger fucked my palm
Jen: Oh my you were hand raped