Tim," What the hell is a g0y?!?"
Behaviorally: Anal-sex is innately shunned by g0y men - as it represents, to them, the ultimate form of sexual disrespect whether it be male/male or male/female. G0y men know that anal-Sex is the mechanism for the EXPLOSIVE SPREAD of Sexually Transmitted Diseases over the globe. Other distasteful stereotypes include (but are not limited to): Effeminate behavior, extreme passivity (like cowardice) & drag. G0Y men don't call other men "girl", "bitch", "queen", etc.
G0y men refuse to be defined by the gay community. As G0y men we accept that we are born homosexual but we choose not to be gay, this doesn't make us gay-lite or homophobic. We are self identified homosexual men, how we who state we are homosexual or bisexual be homophobic? We do not hate gays we just know that the anus is not a sexual organ and wasn't meant to be used as one.
Behaviorally: Anal-sex is innately shunned by g0ys - as it represents the ultimate form of sexual disrespect whether male/male or male/female. Other distasteful stereotypes include (but are not limited to): Effeminate behavior, extreme passivity (like cowardice) & drag. G0YS don't call other men "girl", "bitch", "queen", etc. You probably get the idea.
G0YS also reject (due to well developed theology), the lax & lazy prejudices that have arisen in conservative fundamentalist circles against all same-gender sexuality. In Christian circles, this travesty has arisen due to the extremely sloppy exegesis (& outfight fraud) of (6) verses of Scripture, w. a total failure to rightfully divide the Word. This becomes quite apparent when the theme of the New Testament is held up as a standard, & these anti same-gender teachings are examined in light of that theme. Very briefly, Romans chapter (1) is a scathing commentary exposing temple prostitution & Anal-sex (Women w. men, & men w. men; -- N0T what is called 'homo-sex'). This is made very clear by other writings of Saul/Paul himself, & a warning from Peter about those who would misinterpret Paul's writings. Paul writes that those who did these things received within themselves the due penalty for their perverse behavior - & that penalty was death. Likewise, G0YS point out that Anal-Sex is the mechanism for the EXPLOSIVE SPREAD of Sexually Transmitted Diseases over the globe - many deadly. The anus is not a sexual organ (genital) & treating it as such violates Moses' command "Not to bear false witness". Scripture teaches that one of the very foundations of the faith involves "repentance from acts that lead to death". G0YS believe that changing the meaning of the Romans (1) from being against anal-sex, to a focus on (& against) 'homo-sex', -simultaneously adds & deletes from the canon of Scripture; & carries the ultimate penalty for perverting the gospel.
Those body builders are very masculine but they seem to like only men, I wonder if they are g0ys?
Basically, this involves a gay "experience," not an overriding preference for the same sex or a gay lifestyle. For men, this generally means limited non-sexual caressing and no mouth-to-mouth kissing or (especially) anal sex. Some may find limited oral to not be objectionable. YMMV.
For women, it generally means "lipstick lesbian" activity as occurs in college or among good friends (or on a fun-filled vacation) with no strap-ons or monster double dongs, although some toys and small vibes might enter the picture as an enhancement.
Some activity of this nature can occur in a traditional heterosexual marriage or relationship when the partners decide to extend it to a threesome scenario, such as MFM or MFF. Usually this activity is of a one-time nature, with no repeat performances or long-term relationship ensuing. The participants are not likely to make the encounter public, as it is not an activity they generally seek out.
Gay guys and gals may not care much for a g0y person just dabbling, or may take it as an insult that the g0y dabblers might be homophobic or judgmental, or look down on people that practice full penetration, but it is not the case. Why would they fear or judge an activity they have engaged in? Bottome line, the g0ys just don't fit the profile of being gay. It is similar to a gay fem gal that only likes other gay fem types, not the Butch--it's nothing person, it's just not what appeals to them, period.