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1.
The friend of your boyfriend/girlfriend who regularly encourages him/her to engage in scandalous behavior behind your back.
"My girlfriend went out with the damn frenabler, tonight."
"Yeah, I know; I just got back from the club, and they were all coked up, grinding all over some douchebags."
by Paul Crabtree December 26, 2011