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A slang term referring to a woman who surrounds herself with gay men. Her association can be purely platonic or sexually driven, but she is often typecasted as outgoing and bubbly.
Grace from "Will and Grace" is a flame dame.
by flamedameprincess January 24, 2013
 
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Synonym for "fag hag".
More modern and fun term for HOTT girls who aren't "hags" but hang out with fags.
Girl 1: You are turning into the biggest fag hag ever!
Girl 2: Ew, I'm too hot to be a fag hag, I'm a flame dame.
by Trojan Boy November 16, 2004