Top Definition
Female Domination: A woman (or action in which a woman) dominates sexual interaction with her mate. See also dominatrix. This frequently (but not exclusively or absolutely) includes:

-) Humiliation of the sub. (submissive, slave)
-) Penetration of the sub. (incl. strap-ons, toys, etc).
-) Bondage / restraint of the sub.
-) "Water Sports"
He disrobed at the order of his femdom mistress.
by OtherJames October 05, 2005
Short for Female Domination. The most wonderful form of BDSM. Unfortunately, it is made fun of in many movies.
The dominate one (Madame, Mistress, Domina, Dominatrix, Goddess) have complete control over the slave, such as:

-Whipping/Spanking
-Riding the slave like a pony
-Put leash and collar on the slave
-Facesitting
-Humiliate
-Bondage/Blindfold/Gag
-Penetrate with strap-on
-Make slaves lick boots
-Dress up slave like a maid,animal, etc.
-Use slave for sexual favors

Some (BAD) dominatrices use slaves as "money slaves", and make them pay for everything. Usually scammers.

Mostly used in sexual games, but some people also have a 24/7 relationship, where the Dominatrix is in charge of her slave/s all the time.

In other words; femdom is most of the time amazing. Check out OWK.cz (Other World Kingdom) for one of the better websites. Other examples are "Whipped Ass" and "Men In Pain".
The slave was having second thoughts about Femdom, as he was bending over, tied up, getting whipped and penetrated.
by Olydiga Gossen November 20, 2007
Woman dominator in S&M
His Femdom whipped him hard
by James March 10, 2003
An erotic phenomenon characterized by an exchange of power in which She claims authority and dominance over the submissive male; a consensual arrangement which differs dramatically from more overtly mainstream heterosexual sexual practices where the male is assumed to be the essentially dominant predator. Subby fantasies have been misinterpreted as being the essence of Femdom; they have fed the industry as a commercial phenomenon. His fantasies are not what arouses Her. Femdom porn represents the D/s dynamic to the same extent that hetero porn represents the dynamic of loving in conventional relationships; it doesn't. In the Femdom dynamic the male may be motivated primarily by his sexual fantasies, often of a masochistic nature, to the extent that these desires drive him to manipulate his female partner into taking the upper hand for his pleasure alone. But fundamentally, a Femdom relationship should be both theoretically and practically founded on Her needs, pleasures, desires, whims and caprices. Femdom as a lifestyle is founded on loving but firm Female authority, respect and devotion and altruistic service from Her partner, not on his sexual fantasies. A genuine submissive in an authentic Femdom relationship will strive to remind himself that Femdom is about pleasing his Goddess first and foremost to the very best of his abilities, making Her sexual needs more important that his own, and not offending her by making his submission all about himself.
Their Femdom relationship was unconventional: she called the shots and ran the show. He was at her beck and call in every respect. She had him trained in all the most important ways to bring herself the most possible pleasure, and when she felt inclined she might reward him by reminding him of how inept and disappointing he was as a man...
by Eva.luci March 03, 2016
Literally female domination. Fem dom is when the female in the partnership is sexually in charge. Can be includedbondage, s&m and b&m. Often found with feet worship. The female, or dminatrix, can either be in charge of a male or a female. Fem Dom is popular in lesbian groups. Usually a butch dominates a skinnier, hotter girl. Tieing up, pussy play, pain, clamps, whips, and other toys are involved.
Bob watched fem dom porn. Those bitches are harsh.
by Hannnnnnnnnah July 08, 2006
when a female straps on a dildo and fucks a male in the poop shoot
Action Dan: How was Cornerstone last night?
Evan Albert: Amazing.....met this chick there.....fucked me good.
Action Dan: Gotta love femdom.
by Evan Albert May 16, 2006
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