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When a man get a hand shandy from a lady but he controls the pace at which her hand moves by holding her hand. Or it could be the other way around.
She totally gave me a Dutch Rudder. Or did I give it to myself? Either way, it was great!
by indefensible May 12, 2006
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1.
Having someone complete the act of masturbation by pulling up and down on the forearm, while the male holds his own penis.
SnackCake gave Tonkin a Dutch Rudder, because they are two freaky people who like to try new things.
by nfkiller May 10, 2006
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2.
To grab your schwanz and have some tool grab your forearm and move it up and down, like he's steering the dick boat into orgasm harbor
SnackCake gives the worst Dutch Rudders ever. It's like a mentally retarded Chinese monkey trying to play the banjo.
by The REAL tonkin May 30, 2006
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3.
When a man masturbates, and another person grabs his arm and makes him do the motion. It's sort of like a cross between masturbation and a handjob. He is still holding on, but the other person is still moving your arm.
She gave him a dutch rudder last night.
by Some Crate May 10, 2006
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Noun - Halfway between masturbation and a handjob. i.e. when a man has his own hand on his penis but someone else is controlling the motion.
SpinalTapp gave me the ole' dutch rudder one summer up on brokeback.
by Josh Edwards May 11, 2006
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5.
When you have someone grab your arm and jack you off with your hand, instead of being gay.
Bill: Oh my god Joe you give the best dutch rudders.
by wtf is a pseudonym?????? March 08, 2009
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6.
a dutch rudder is when you put your hand on your dick and have someone else work your arm
Dude 1: My girl just gave me a Dutch rudder behind the school

Dude 2: Oh,the one where someone jerks you off with your hand ?
by inicoma December 27, 2011
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when you grab another persons arm and jerk them off for them
i dutch ruddered sally last night
by headshot0330 October 08, 2013
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