It is when a male puts his hand on his penus like he would masterbait then the female moves his arm for him
I did a dutch rudder last night john
by jamestown123345454 May 12, 2009
When a man get a hand shandy from a lady but he controls the pace at which her hand moves by holding her hand. Or it could be the other way around.
She totally gave me a Dutch Rudder. Or did I give it to myself? Either way, it was great!
by indefensible May 12, 2006
When you stick your hand up somebody's ass, grab their tailbone, and lead them around the room - much like steering a sailboat. This can also be done by using a butt plug with a handle on it, but is then called a dutch tugboat.
I put some swifters on Leif's clogs before giving him a Dutch Rudder. Living room floor was clean in about an hour!
by Mr Michael Bolton May 18, 2006
To put your penis in someone's ass and lead them around the room.
I'll give you a dutch rudder and we'll look like we're conga dancing.
by tonkin May 12, 2006