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The quickly whispered phrase a gay man says to his young lover as he's getting ready to plunge his penis into their butthole. It can sometimes also be uttered when there is a fecal accident as a result of said buttsex.
"Dontbescarried, Tyrone. It'll only hurt at first."

"There's shit all over your mom's futon, but dontbescarried, we'll blame it on the dog."
by Rutherfoo June 30, 2008