N. (State of being) By searching for this term, you have been caught doin' the most. Often used when somebody over-uses, over-does, or over-kills anything, or goes out of their way for an insignificant reason.

*In text messages and other text-forms of communications, it is often abbreviated as "dtm". Quite often it is followed or lead by a "smh" or "shaking my head".

When someone is just over-exaggerating, trying to draw a lot of attention, or putting themselves out there in a needy manner.