The word comes from a person reading the word defy but pronouncing it (deafy) triggered from the spelling of Def Jam Records. Black cultured or black version of a blond bimbo.
Hench this person is defy.
What a defy bitch
You are so defy
When a girl reaches down your pants and grabs hold of your member, and instead of jerking or tugging, she simply holds it.
"fuck dude, all I got was a defy"
"Na fuck that bitch, she will probably just give you a defy"
1. To smoke more weed than all others have smoked before.
2. To refuse to settle for the little boobies, and only take the best tasting boobs that exist.