To send a complete stranger (a random editor) a message through a site like fmylife or urbandictionarythrough their submit content features. This must be done completely within the parameters of the site and many partakers even include an email address for further correspondence (although I cannot personally reccomend it).
Dear Editor: Thank you for publishing this definition, and might I add that you are looking great today. We should get in touch, firstname.lastname@example.org
Not the way to begin a definition. The infamous style of "a censored,inconvenient truth" and the beloved and wildly popular "Man" and "Misandry" definitions
Dear editor, this entry does not violate any of the rules on the editor homepage. "Rule 3. Publish opinions. Don't reject an entry just because it's opinionated. Opinions are useful to readers unfamiliar with a topic. Don't reject an entry because you disagree or are offended. Don't reject an entry because you think it's inaccurate." It's not sexist as it's a view which can be held by any gender, doesn't generalise entire groups and citing another's opinion isn't personal approval or promotion. "Rule 2. Entries can document discrimination but not endorse it."