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To mark an occasion that is worthy of celebrating yet also feels like you are due commiserations. Birthdays that make you far older than you want to be, or to mark the end of a relationshit sad that it's over, but glad that you're single.
We should really go out & commiserbrate your birthday. Forty or not we should still celebrate.
by jojodio February 08, 2010