|1.||Check Your PM's|
A passive-aggressive, attention-whoring way of letting a message board community know you are secretly deliberating, commiserating or recruiting with certain, specific members of said community in order to gain sympathy.
member#1: "I can't believe this is happening to me here!"
member#2: "Member 1, check your pm's!"
member#3: "Why not just say it publicly?"
member#2: "I want everybody to know that we have SEKRETS!"