a cake boy is someone light and fluffy, effeminate, not where its at, not meaty in the slightest sense of the word.
the opposite of a cakeboy being a 'meat boy'(see 'meat boy').
-" Well surely you must be mistaken, Lawrence is as meaty as they come."
-'' No, no he's not. Look in his eyes and tell me he's there, tell me he's not a cake boy.''
"He's in a yellow camaro, skin so smooth, a buttercup boy from the funny school."
- Sir Mix-A-Lot, "Cake Boy"
"Cakeboy" is a term I first came across in Clueless. In this case, it is used to announce that the man is homosexual, and while some would describe it as hateful, I happen to think it is a rather nice word, and hope that someday it will be used by the general public to promote homosexuality. Rarer still is my creation "cakegirl" (not yet in circulation) which means "lesbian".
1. As gay man - "Yo Cher, your man Christian is a cakeboy".
A very feminine male, also metrosexual.
Murray: Your man Christian is a cake boy.
Cher, Dionne: What?
Murray: He's a disco dancin', Oscar Wilde readin', Streisand ticket holdin' friend of Dorothy, know what I'm sayin'?
a male homo; a dude that's gay.
That guy that works at the coffee place is a total cakeboy.
a soft, feminine heterosexual male
Jerome ain't queer. He's just a muthafuckin cake boy!
a male that is often confused for being gay but is really straight
Released as the B-side to 1992's "baby got back
"Cakeboy" describes a fellow that will "take your girlfriend from ya" while at the same time "makin' your homeboys wonder"
A cakeboy is the sensitive sort of male that a dacade later would be known as a metrosexual
that prefers "cappuchino latte
", "drives a yellow camaro
and may well "move to the old disco groove
" though it may look "like a Chubby Checker nightmare".
"Get an around the way girl
, and keep on bailin'
And if you're stuck with one of them stuck up
Huh, don't press your luck/
'Cause she'll leave you for what she enjoys/
It ain't a man, it's a straight up