1. The perpetrator (insultee)has a premeditated desire to have the recipient(insulted)recieve the slur (LAW OF PRESENCE)
2. both the perpetrator and the recipient are on a relationship past the acquaintance level.(LAW OF ACQUAINTANCE)
Asian Joe: stop waiting for the change you stupid kike.
Jewish Josh: eh.
(Internal thought process: I am not offended by this since I am both present, and more than just acquainted with Joe)
Example 2: (Joe and Brennan outside the presence of Josh)
Asian Joe: Josh is such a fucking kike. he sat and waited for a penny for 5 minutes.
Irish Brennan: Your rascist.
Example 3: (Joe in a Barmitzvah)
Josh: Joe, I want you to meet my friend Steve.
Asian Joe: Awesome! now I get to add another kike and Josh can stop being such a token.
Steve: (Internal Thought Process: You rascist son of a bitch)