A homosexual man who is hairy. He looks "butch" but when he talks, purses fly out of his mouth.
Oh Mary! Look at that Big Gay Bear that just walked in the door. Nice pooper cushion on that hunk!
by woofmary January 29, 2005
When someone is being a general tit, or a cock.
Jonni u big gay bear, shut the fuck up!
by Kieran 'the legend' Morris December 06, 2005
The name given to those who are too cool for school. They possess bear like qualities - big, royal, handsome etc
"Ben, your such a Big Gay Bear - dude, i want to be like you"
by Ben - the original Big Gay Bear January 27, 2005