A taboo word for any form of sex. When females participate in 'Ben Dame' they are generally trashy, and/or have hit a low point in their life. If a male where to participate in 'Ben Dame' he would generally want to brag about it.
Dude, last night that girl was so drunk I got her in the Ben Dame. Wait till' her friends find out!
by SoWrongItsYourMom July 05, 2011