2) An individual possessing a flirtatious style, appearance and attitude normally associated with sluts, but remains dutifully committed to sexual abstinence.
3) An individual obsessed with abstinence usually due to a deep rooted fear, hatred or jealously towards sexual activity. Women tend to be fearful and men jealous.
often times they dont have the desire to be fingered because they are afraid it will "hurt" like a mofo.
unfortunately these people are often really really hot, so it sucks.