A respectful term for Big Sister. Orig. Urdu (Pakistan/India).

A male homosexual who is regarded with high esteem in the community of South Asian queers.

Popularized by a group of desihomoFOB guys in Boston while referring to a local diva of international stature.
Did you see Aapa's dance at the Masala party? Her drag was so like 70s Bollywood. By the way, Aapa just left for World Social Forum by the way and when she comes back from Brazil, she is going to Pakistan and India via Dubai.
by Ayaz January 28, 2005
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